Published in the Independent Summer 2023
by Nikki Anne Schmutz
Funeral directors play a vital role in providing compassionate and dignified services to families during their time of loss. When it comes to honoring veterans, it is essential for funeral directors to be knowledgeable about the benefits available through the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA). These benefits not only assist families in arranging meaningful funerals for their loved ones but also ensure that veterans receive the recognition and respect they deserve for their service. There are key aspects of VA benefits that funeral directors should be aware of, enabling them to guide and support families in navigating the process.
Eligibility for VA Funeral Benefits:
To qualify for VA funeral benefits, the deceased individual must have been a veteran or an active-duty service member who received an honorable discharge. Some benefits may also extend to certain reservists, National Guard members, and spouses or dependents of eligible veterans. Funeral directors should verify the deceased’s military service record by requesting a copy of the DD Form 214, commonly known as the discharge papers.
Burial in VA National Cemeteries:
One of the significant benefits available to veterans is burial in a VA national cemetery. Funeral directors should inform families about the option of interment in these hallowed grounds, which include over 140 cemeteries across the United States. VA national cemeteries provide a final resting place with military honors, perpetual care, and a grave marker or headstone at no cost to the family. Funeral directors can assist families in coordinating burial arrangements with the nearest national cemetery.
Funeral Reimbursement Allowance:
The VA offers a funeral reimbursement allowance to help cover the costs associated with the veteran’s burial or cremation. Funeral directors should inform families about this benefit, which can help alleviate the financial burden of funeral expenses. The reimbursement amount is based on various factors, such as the veteran’s service-related death, whether the funeral took place in a VA or non-VA facility, and whether the family incurred out-of-pocket expenses.
Military Funeral Honors:
Funeral directors should be familiar with the military funeral honors program, which provides veterans with final honors as a token of the nation’s gratitude for their service. This program includes the folding and presentation of the United States flag to the family, the playing of Taps, and the presence of a uniformed military detail at the graveside service. Funeral directors can assist families in arranging for military funeral honors by contacting the appropriate military branch or coordinating with the VA. If a family doesn’t choose to do military honors, they are still entitled to a flag. Flags can be applied for through the VA or picked up at any United States Post Office with the proper paperwork.
Headstones and Markers:
The VA provides granite headstones or markers for eligible veterans’ graves, regardless of whether they are buried in a national cemetery or a private cemetery. Funeral directors should guide families in selecting the appropriate headstone or marker design, which can include personalized inscriptions to honor the veteran’s military service. The VA will ship the headstone or marker directly to the chosen cemetery at no cost.
Presidential Memorial Certificates:
Funeral directors should inform families about the availability of Presidential Memorial Certificates. These certificates, signed by the President, express the nation’s appreciation for the veteran’s service. Funeral directors can assist families in requesting these certificates, which can serve as cherished mementos for the next of kin.
Collaboration with VA and Veteran Service Organizations:
Funeral directors can enhance their understanding of VA benefits by establishing partnerships with local VA offices and veteran service organizations. These entities can provide valuable information, training, and resources to funeral directors, ensuring they are well-equipped to guide families through the process of accessing VA benefits. Two of the best local resources are the VFW and the American Legion. While both are organizations that serve veterans, they have different requirements for entry. The VFW is open only to veterans who served in combat, while the Legion is open to anyone who has served in the military.
Knowing what is available through the VA for veterans can be a little more complicated if the veteran was disabled or retired from a branch of the military. This is where it is best to rely on those who understand it best – the VA, local VFW, or local American Legion. These can be found easily by an internet search of your city or county.
Benefits for Career Military Veterans:
For those who had a career in the military and retired from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service (DFAS), there are several VA benefits available. These benefits are designed to provide support and assistance to retired veterans and their families. Here are some key VA benefits available to retired military personnel:
Beyond the well-known benefits, the VA offers a range of lesser-known programs that provide crucial support and resources to veterans and their families. These hidden gems can make a significant difference in the lives of those who have served our country. While these benefits won’t come into play as much for a funeral director, it’s always good to know about resources when families are preplanning or for surviving spouses of veterans who are in need of help.
Even past everything listed so far, there are hundreds of programs outside of the VA across the country that have been created to assist veterans with things like job assistance, healing, service dogs, housing, therapy, hunting retreats, help for caretakers of veterans, education, fund raising, and local memorials to honor veterans.
As funeral directors, it is essential to be well-informed about the VA benefits available to honor veterans’ service and support grieving families. Know what is available in your area, create relationships with those resources, and lean on them when an in-depth knowledge of the VA is needed.
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